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Paul Andrew Standley

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Paul Andrew  Standley


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Passed away on 13 January 2021, aged 56 years.

Paul Andrew Standley 1964-2021

In memory of our loving Paul, a devoted son, husband and brother and a kind caring friend to all that knew him. Paul finally lost his battle against cancer on 13th January 2021. No words can convey our loss, he will be in our thoughts for evermore.

Please join us in making a donation to the Royal Marsden who cared for Paul so wonderfully. Let's help beat the fight against cancer. On behalf of Paul and the family we would like to thank you for your generosity. 

Page closed on 05 March 2021

Funeral Service
Date & Time:Friday 05 Feb 2021 02:30 PM
Service:Easthampstead Park Crematorium - Braccan
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Order of Service:
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  • £40.00 (+ £9.50) David and Margaret online donation
    Always thinking of you, never far from our thoughts. The memories we share will always be with us. All our love, Aunty Margaret & Uncle David xxx
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) David & Gael Lane online donation
    For our Son in Law Paul, Forever in our hearts, never to be forgotten. All our love, Mum & Dad Lane xxxx
  • £100.00 (+ £23.75) Mark,Tracy,Lloyd & Bronwen online donation
    Words cannot express enough our love for you Paul. You were such a kind, generous and selfless man. Always there for the family and so good to Mum. We shall miss you terribly. x
  • £100.00 (+ £23.75) Karen Lane-Standley online donation
    My rock, my soul mate, the love of my life. There will not be a day go by that you are not in my thoughts. Together forever babes, you will always be the one for me. Your loving wife, Karen xxx
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Amanda Lichtenhein online donation
    I'm going to miss that cheeky smile ..! I will most certainly hold onto all the memories of all the fun and laughter we had over the decades. It has been an honour to be a part of your life, thank you Paul.
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Debra & Jon online donation
    Quite simply the nicest guy ever. You always had a smile and never a bad word for anyone. We are privileged to have called you a friend. Paul we will miss you and forever remember you with great fondness. Deepest sympathy to Karen your family and friends. Jon and Debra
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Sian online donation
  • Mehr and Chris online donation
    Sorry for your loss
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Jean Taylor online donation
    With fond memories of my nephew Paul. A good friend to many and always willing to help. Rest in Peace.
  • Anonymous online donation
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Angela, Stuart, Thalia, Emily online donation
    Dear Paul, What a full and accomplished life you led. You touched many hearts and will continue to do so in the memories of you that live on with us. You were the youngest of the Collyer cousins and it doesn't seem right that you were the first to leave. We assume, if we ever think about it, that we'll go out in the order we came in, but No, life just keeps us guessing. Much love and may you Rest in Peace.
  • £15.00 Seb Bowerman online donation
    Thinking of you and sending my best wishes x
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Hayley online donation
    Dearest Paul, Well who am I going to talk Durgo Valves to now? One of the nicest, kindest people I have been fortunate to know. Paul, I will miss your smile. May your soul rest in peace my friend. Sleep well.xx
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Bernie and Rose online donation
    What wonderful tributes to you Paul. You were selfless and always ready to find time for other people. If there were more people like you in the world, it would be a better place. It will be so strange at our family gatherings for you not to be there but we will have such fond memories to share with one another.
  • £25.00 (+ £5.94) Pippa & Joe online donation
    This is so sad, Paul was a lovely guy, and his memory will always be with us, sending so much love to Karen and family, and Paul's family, at this sad time xx
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Justin & Jen online donation
    We will miss Paul dearly. He was one of the nicest guys and a true, true friend. We shared some fun and memorable times. He will always be in our thoughts. Much love Justin & Jen Xxxx
  • £100.00 (+ £23.75) Mary Standley online donation
    In loving memory of a wonderful son. You will always be in my heart.
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Pam & Chris online donation
    In memory of Paul, from loving neighbours of your Mum
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Sonia online donation
    I am privileged to have been your friend. You were truly wonderful, beautiful inside and out. You will always have a place in my heart. Love Sonia xxxx
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Richard Chadd online donation
    In memory of Paul Standley one of the great guys. Will miss you my friend. Deepest condolences to Karen and his family.
  • £50.00 Andy Gardner online donation
    Paul was one of the most genuine lovely guys I have ever had the pleasure to meet and I still can't believe I won't get to see and have a laugh with him again. My thoughts are with Karen and Paul's family during this difficult time. Rest in peace Paul
  • £40.00 (+ £9.50) Teresa & Ken Yearwood online donation
    Lovely Paul - a truly kind and genuine person who will stay in our hearts forever. Paul was so generous in his willingness to help a friend in need and we will miss hearing his calm voice and seeing his beautiful smile. Rest in peace xxx
  • Rebecca Payne online donation
    It hasn't quite sunk in that I am having to visit this page to make a donation in the memory of our Paul. He always cracked me up when he took the piss out of Karen. All I can hear is babes, babes. Being around Paul was always entertaining and I am eternally grateful to call him my friend. Today is going to be an exceptionally hard day and my love and thoughts are with Karen, her family and Paul's family and friends. Rest in peace my dearest Paul x
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Kim online donation
    Paul was simply one of the kindest people you could wish to meet, such a genuinely good guy. My thoughts are with you all at such a desperately sad time. He will be so missed but never ever forgotten. Xxx
  • £25.00 (+ £5.94) Lorna & Lee online donation
    RIP Paul, Sending our love and thinking of you all xxxx
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Helen and Josh online donation
    Our dear friend Paul - quiet, great fun, big hearted, HUGE impact. Rest well, much love always xxxxx
  • £25.00 (+ £5.94) Dan & Kelly Phillips online donation
    Our thoughts are with all his friends and family at this time.
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Selena online donation
    Such sad news, lots of love.xx
  • £25.00 (+ £5.94) Tim online donation of the loveliest people I have ever met. Always on hand to help a mate, a good laugh and good company. I'm grateful that our paths crossed and I'll hold the memories of our many adventures close to my heart. RIP my dear friend ❤️
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Bruce & Alice online donation
    We feel proud and honoured to have been Paul's friend - simply one of the very best gone far too soon.
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Lisa & Tony Occleshaw online donation
    We never got the chance to meet Paul, but from the things Karen has told us and from the amazing messages from his friends, we know he was someone special. Sending love to Karen and the family. In our prayers. Lisa & Tony xx
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Colin, Sarah, Keira & Kyle online donation
    Paul you were the most amazing person to know we can't believe we've lost such an important member of our family, the body may be gone but your spirit lives on, forever in our hearts and thoughts sleep well RIP xx
  • £100.00 (+ £23.75) All of your friends at Concur online donation
    Karen - We all know how much Paul meant to you. May he rest in peace and may your happy memories live on for eternity.
  • Ade, Paula, Nath' & Lauren online donation
    Rest easy Paul - we love you so much x Always in Our Hearts & thoughts Ade, Paula, Nath' & Lauren xxxx
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Leigh & Mark online donation
    Sending all our love. They are no words. Thinking of you all at this difficult time xxxxxx
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Dave Young online donation
    So sad to click on this page and see Paul's picture. I only worked with Paul at AWE for a year but he made a big impact on me as he was one of the nicest blokes i have met. God Bless Paul.
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Nick Farr online donation
    Such a shock to hear Paul has passed away at such a young age.What a great guy he was .Had many a good laugh with Paul when working at the RAE together and will always remember his kindness and willing to help a mate out. RIP My friend.
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Kathleen and Alex Nangle online donation
    In our thoughts and hearts. Paul was a truly lovely guy and we will miss him dearly. With all our love Kath and Alex xxx
  • £25.00 (+ £5.94) Ivan & Ann online donation
    Paul was a really great bloke who I was privileged to know. May he rest in peace.
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Louise & Steve online donation
    Truly sad to hear Paul lost his fight. We have happy memories of him through the 80s/90s and early 2000s - aerobics at the arena, cycling at the weekends and of course drinking. He helped us on many plumbing jobs too. The nicest person, cannot believe another one of the good guys has been taken from us earlier than is fair. We have some great photos to share when the time comes for all that. Cheers Paul, until we meet again. Louise and Steve (Gostling) xx
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Lisa & Stuart online donation
    You're all never far from our thoughts - we're so very sorry x
  • £20.00 Neelam online donation
    Thinking you of all xx
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Joanne Hook online donation
    Thinking of you all in this sad time, so sorry for your loss xxx
  • £25.00 (+ £5.94) Jet & Vee online donation
    To one of the most kindist and nicest friends that I knew. Never had a bad word to say about anyone. I always pulled his leg but he always took it in good spirit. His passing is difficult to comprehend as he was too young and full of life. He was always willing to offer a hand and his work ethic and quality of work was second to none. I will miss seeing him for the odd game of golf and my annual firework party, which he enjoyed. Also for the sharing of Vee's cup-cakes, he loved a cake. Sleep well my dearest friend. RIP all my love Jet
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Mike & Chris Talbot-Wilson online donation
    Paul will always be 'Stan the Man' as he was truly one-in-a-million. An honourable and kind-hearted friend.